It has been 4 years since our last newsletter. As you may recall, we were just preparing for the birth of our first son at the time. Logan was born right on schedule, March 25th, 2010, and our lives have never been the same since. Logan has blessed us in more ways than we could have imagined. He was a very happy and easy going baby who started walking at 9 months of age. He is now almost 4 years old and just started attending preschool this summer. He really seems to enjoy school and showing off all he learns. He knows the alphabet and phonics sounds, spells/reads many words, identifies colors and shapes, and counts all the way to 1 billion!!! Just to name a few. He also has a very impressive ability to remember and recite lines from his favorite songs and shows. Despite being delayed in communication and language skills, he is actually quite the talker! This past October, he started attending an ASD special education preschool program offered through our public school system. After just a few months, he is making noticeable progress in expressing his needs/wants, potty training, self-feeding, and interacting with his peers. We hope he continues to benefit from this program and pray God will equip us as his parents.
Despite these last 4 years of harder economic times and high unemployment rates, we praise God for the very good secure jobs he has provided us. Pat was promoted to Associate Dean at PBA school of nursing several years ago. This year he worked very hard developing a proposal for a doctoral level nurse practitioner program at PBA, which was recently approved by the Board of Trustees. He also was distinguished as one of UF’s Young Alumni award recipients. Last October, Jen was able to start doing her VA pharmacy job from home (telework). Although working from home can be challenging with young children, thanks to our excellent nanny helpers, it has been working out fairly well. Jen really enjoys being able to maintain her full time career while also being able to stay connected with the kids at home during the day.
With Jen working from home, living close to the VA was no longer a priority. So when the real estate market picked up last year and we were expecting our 2nd child, we felt it might be a good time to try to sell our home and relocate out west (30 minutes) to be closer to family and friends. After many months of intense house hunting and with Jen 7 months pregnant, we were almost discouraged enough to give up the idea all together. It was then, that God answered our prayers by providing a home that was as close to everything we wanted as we could hope for. Not only did the sellers accept our offer, but we would be able to move in before baby’s due date…3 weeks before. Even though that wasn’t much time, we felt like that would work better than trying to do it after the baby was born. We then put our house up for sale, and found a buyer within 24 hours! That’s how crazy the South Florida real estate market can be. Fortunately for us, it all worked and we moved into our new home as planned the last week of April. Thanks to the generosity of our friends and family who helped us, we quickly got settled in our new home. Only 1 week later, our son decided to make his early arrival. Although we were not planning on having a baby that weekend, it worked out well since Jen’s mom was already staying with us at the time and was able to be there for the birth. Needless to say, our house-warming party plans have been put on hold for awhile.
For those who have not already met our newest addition, the youngest little guy there in the photo is Corban Patrick (or Corban Dallas Multipass as Pat prefers). Like his Dad, he apparently has a flair for drama and a mind of his own as evidenced by his decision to be born early on International Star Wars Day (May the 4th be with you…get it?), rather than share a birthday with his Dad on May 15th, which was his official due date. Even though he arrived early, he was heavier at birth than his big brother was. He is a very happy boy, doing great in all areas, following in Logan’s footsteps (literally) by standing and cruising at only 7 months of age. He really seems to admire and adore Logan.
Some of you may recall our “1st child” the Doberman named Glory. As happens to many Dobermans as they age, Glory developed large tumors on her body. One in particular was the size of a bowling ball attached to the side of her abdomen. Because she was 14, there was nothing that could be done for a tumor of that size, so we eventually made the very difficult decision of putting her down. Although she is no longer with us in body, she will always have a place in our hearts.
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We wish the best to all of you and look forward to hearing from you soon. Pat, Jen, Logan, and Corban
Logan turned 3 months yesterday, wow has it been a fast three months. Jen has been making a baby photo book for him, and it’s incredible how much he has changed in just 3 months. He’s very interactive and vocal now. He flirts with the baby in the mirror, and he hits and grabs at the toys hanging from his “gym,” and to commemorate his three month birthday decided to learn how to roll over.
If you’ve been keeping up with the photo galleries, there’s four so far.
Well, we’re at the end of yet another year. As our parents always told us, time speeds up as you get older. I still think things that happened three years ago happened only a few months ago. It’s been a while, since we have sent out an official newsletter/update, so it’s about time. (This newsletter will only cover 2009, but I’ll go back and retroactively add in some past newsletters later.)
God has continued to bless us this past year with our continued health, steady jobs, good friends, our loyal doggy…and we’re having a baby!!!!! Jen is seven months pregnant with our firstborn who we’re told will be a boy. His tentative name is Logan Matthew Heyman. Jen’s due date is March 24. We have a wishlist/registry available if you would like to contribute to the welfare of a minor.
This June, Jen and I got to take a fabulous (in Jen’s words), week-long Alaskan cruise aboard the Norwegian Cruise Lines Pearl. We visited Seattle, Juneau, Skagway, Glacier Bay, Ketchikan, Victoria, and Seattle again. This was our first “real” cruise as married folk, and Jen highly recommends that you take one if you are looking for a true getaway vacation.
We had incredibly good weather—not a cloud in the sky the whole trip and temperatures in the 70s and 80s. We saw Orca (Killa) whales, saw several glaciers, ziplined through the Tongass rainforest, met some nice people, met some weird people, and overall had a lot of fun. Jen has now decided that she loves cruises and wants to do them more often. Personally, I’m not the biggest fan, but it is nice in that there is absolutely no honey-do list. I think cruising with other friends would be more fun…so if you’re in the market to go on a cruise (and can arrange for a sitter) look us up.
We also took a trip to Washington, D.C. (see below for details).
The year started off the same as any other year. I am still working at Palm Beach Atlantic University as a nursing professor. I am trying some new innovations in my teaching methodology, and last year, I recorded all my lectures and put them up as podcasts for the students to listen to. The idea was that I would no longer lecture, but go over big picture stuff and application, more quizzing, etc. For the most part it was successful—I am currently making improvements based on the new website (which I’ll cover later).
I was promoted to associate professor (from assistant professor) and had the opportunity to present at a technology in nursing/education conference in Washington, D.C. (The unfortunate thing that I’ve discovered is that most people at these types of technology conferences don’t really love/understand technology.) Jen got to come along with me, and we did the tourist thing—neither of us had ever been to Washington before. While we were there, we got to eat dinner with Matt Leopold (my old roommate), and his wife, Kim, and daughter, Ava.
In the past few months, I installed Drupal (a web management program) and have been using it to overhaul the website. You’ll notice that there are a lot more updates now than in the past. Part of that is thanks to Drupal. For example, I now have a little block on the left hand side that shows articles that I have been reading lately. So if you want to see part of what goes on the mind of a Pat, make sure you read those articles. (I only put articles that I find exceptional on there.) You’ll also notice a wishlist for me. Other fun things that I have planned include reviews of the books I’ve read and am reading. I also hope to have a nifty way to add scheduling of food for people who want to bring us meals after the baby is born. Finally, I’m using Drupal to re-organize and improve my delivery of the nursing lectures I talked about above (still a work in progress).
About two years ago, I finally acted on a lifelong dream and purchased my first gun. This year, I purchased a shotgun. It is incredible the amount of information out there to absorb when planning to purchase a gun. So I wrote a series of articles on choosing a shotgun, what options to choose when buying a Remington 870, and am planning to write one on recommended modifications to the Remington 870. I also took a shotgun class with Randy Cain (one of the best gun instructors in the U.S.). You can see my writeup of the class along with some class videos.
Jen is still working at the VA Medical Center as a clinical pharmacist. She is now assigned full-time to the HBPC (home based primary care) program for veterans who can still live at home but have trouble getting to the doctor’s office. As part of the interdisciplinary healthcare team, she reviews the patients’ charts and makes recommendations for pharmacological therapies and what not. As satisfying as this position has been for her, she is planning on transitioning into a more flexible position after the baby arrives as a CBOC pharmacist processing orders for CBOC (community outpatient clinics).
Jen has been spending most of her free time lately looking for deals on baby stuff and coordinating the reorganization of the house in getting ready for the baby. (I, of course, am the muscle behind the project.) She also still enjoys working out and spending time with our vicious man-killer, Glory.
Jen and I just got back from a cruise to Alaska. We took the Pearl from Norwegian Cruise Lines from Seattle to Juneau, Skagway, Glacier Bay, Ketchikan, and Victoria. We had incredibly good weather–not a cloud in the sky the whole trip and temperatures in the 70s and 80s.
We saw Orca (Killa) whales, saw several glaciers, ziplined through the rainforest, and generally had a lot of fun. Click on the picture to see some pictures.
Well, at the ripe young age of … I finally made it to Washington, DC. I went for a nursing technology conference along with two colleagues and Jen. Jen and I had the first day pretty much free, so we toured the city. Jen missed the eighth grade trip to DC because of gymnastics. And me? I was living in La República Oriental del Uruguay.
Anyway, if you think you’re up to it, here is the Heyman abbreviated foot tour of Washington. (I say abbreviated because we only hit a small percentage of the sites. Still, it’s at least six miles, and took us six hours to do.
Heyman Abbreviated Foot Tour of Washington, DC.
- Start from the Arlington Cemetary Metro Station.
- Tour the Arlington Cemetary. Be aware that going to the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier or Kennedy’s gravesite adds at least a mile of walking inside the cemetary.
- Walk across the Potomac to the Lincoln Memorial. Hey it doesn’t look that far. From the Parking Lot, it’s a little more than a mile. Notice that the memorial refers to itself as a Temple. Also notice the fasces standing guard outside and that Lincoln’s hands are resting on fasces, leading me to call it the Temple to American Fascism.
- From there, bear left toward the Vietnam Memorial.
- Continue on to the World War II Memorial.
- Continue the loop back up to the Lincoln Memorial and stop at the World War Memorial along the way. It’s very peacful.
- Now continue on to the Korean War Memorial. I think this was my favorite memorial. There are three parts to it: statues of soldiers, a granite wall with images etched into it, and a fountain. The wall is quite striking with its ghostly images. The pictures show up the etchings much more clearly than they appeared in real life.
- Now cross the street and go to the Tidal Basin to see some Cherry Blossoms (assuming they’re in season–they weren’t for us).
- Walking along the basin, cross the street and go around the Washington Monument, the most phallic structure in DC. You can get (free) tickets to go up inside the Monument, but they were sold out days in advance of our arriving. A high school group was playing Big Band Music in the nearby bandshell.
- By this time, about four hours will have passed, and you’re probably hungry, so head up 15th street passing the Treasury building on the left where Geitner and his minions are hatching their evil inflationary monetary policy. On the right is the Old Ebitt Grill, so stop in and have some lunch; you might just rub shoulders with some Whitehouse staffers or media bigwigs.
- Now walk around the entire Whitehouse, being sure to notice the protesters that no one else is noticing on the north side. Slightly anti-climactic if you ask me, although they do have some pretty flowers.
- Now head down to the Smithsonians (plural, because they are plural). The first one is the Museum of American History, but I suggest skipping it. It’s a madhouse full of kids everywhere. I thought we were walking into the Superbowl, judging by the roar of the crowd.
- Then walk over to the Museum of Natural History where Ben Stiller works nights.
- From here, I’d like to see the Capitol, but Jen says there is no way she’s walking another mile down to the Capitol, so instead cross the “Mall” to the Smithsonian Institute (called the “Castle” by some tour guides) and peek inside.
- Along the way stop and take a picture of the Capitol. Under no circumstances must you ever go into the Capitol lest you offend the sensitive probiscis of Senate Majority Leader, Harry Reid.
- Head to the nearest Metro station and head back home.
I hope you brought some good, broken-in walking shoes, or tomorrow your fee will hurt, and you might just have some blisters. Oh, and bring sun screen if the sun is out (the great irony of of living in South Florida, driving a convertible to work every day and getting sunburned in DC).
We hope you’ve all had a very Merry Christmas and are off to a wonderful New Year. It has been a while since many of you have heard from us, so to bring you up to date… Jen and I moved to West Palm Beach in the fall of 2003 after celebrating our first year of marriage.
After completing my PhD at UF, I accepted a faculty position with Palm Beach Atlantic University in their brand new nursing program. Jen was able to transfer within the VA hospital system. Our first home was really a blessing even though it did require some major cosmetic reconstruction (we basically gutted the poor thing). However, following last year’s unprecedented hurricane season, we thought it would be wiser to find a newer concrete block home equipped with hurricane shutters. With the assistance of a very prosperous real estate market, we were able to do just that this past May. Our new home in Riviera Beach is just about perfect for us, and is only minutes from the beach and the VA hospital….a real bonus for Jen! I just completed my first full-time semester of teaching at PBA, having spent the previous 2 years doing mostly administrative activities preparing the new program. This past semester was very demanding on student and professor alike, but things will improve as the curriculum progresses. In addition to the nursing stuff, I also developed and taught Introduction to Ballroom Dance and and Intro to Latin Dance, but after three semesters teaching night dance classes, I’m taking a hiatus.
In addition to relocating, changing jobs, and moving twice, we’ve also traveled a bit over the past few years. For our first anniversary, we spent a long weekend at a resort in the Bahamas. Then, shortly thereafter, we visited AUTEC on San Andros Island with my parents. In the summer of 2004, we spent a week discovering Washington State. The trip was both business and pleasure, with an academic conference in Spokane, a few days in downtown Seattle, and a few days to relax at a Bed & Breakfast in the mountains somewhere between. We had the great fortune of visiting during salmon season, making for especially “good eats”. (Good Eats with Alton Brown has become our favorite—or rather, only—TV show.) In February 2005, we went to yet another conference, this time in Atlanta. We were able to visit with quite a few of my nursing cronies who were also attending the conference, as well as our friends, the DellaVecchias, who had made arrangements to join us there. Then, in August, we visited them at their home in Durham, NC just a few weeks after the birth of their new baby girl, Ashlyn. This past October, during the weekend of hurricane Wilma, we headed out of town to Orlando, Jacksonville, St. Augustine, and Palm Coast, stopping to visit Universal Studios, our future homesite in Palm Coast, and several of our friends who also had had new babies born within the year. We were thankful to return to our new home having suffered only minimal damage from Wilma’s winds.
We’ve enjoyed sharing in the joy and blessing brought by so many new little babies in these past few years. Not only have so many of our friends been starting their families, but within our own immediate family, as well. In January 2004, my brother had his first son, Samuel Joshua. And then, just this past November, they had their second, Noah Michael. Jen & I are the very proud Auntie and “Unckity” of our two nephews. For those of you out there thinking, “So when are you going to have kids?” Our response is, “maybe in 2008”.
In the meantime, we plan to keep working, traveling, and dancing. We recently joined a dance studio where we have an excellent teacher and a lot of social opportunities to show off our fancy moves. As for future travel plans, we’re planning to spend a week in Williamsburg, Virginia this summer. Then, next December, we’ve got a ski trip planned to Breckenridge, Colorado. That’s as much as we have planned for now.
We will do our best to keep in touch. Drop us a line, or an e-mail anytime…we would love to hear from you. Many blessings to you all in 2006! With Love,
Pat & Jen Heyman